It was a typical evening in the mid 1980s, and I was working late at my job as an advertising copywriter in Chicago. Down the hall, a colleague named Mary, not many years out of college, was also toiling away in overtime. I could hear her in her office, humming, shuffling papers and twirling the dial on a desktop radio.
Suddenly there was a shriek, followed by footsteps briskly toward my office. “Jeff! Did you know about this? I just heard on the radio they’re bringing out a new credit card. You get cash back for purchases by using the card!”
Yes, it was the unveiling of the Discover Card (“The card that pays you back, ” as the oft-heard promotions promised), and with it a new era of earning points toward purchases simply by flashing your card.
This was big news to Mary, who dove into a chair in my office and explained she’d had a long history of using – and overusing – credit cards.
Credit card debt built up
While in college, she related, she’d built up tens of thousands of dollars in credit card debt that later had to be settled by selling off stock bequeathed her by her grandmother. Why, I asked her, had she piled up such enormous sums of credit card debt as a student? Didn’t she think she’d have to pay it off?
“Well, you know, in college I was really popular, and I dated a lot.”
Yeah … ?
“Well, I dated a lot of guys who were pre-med and pre-law.”
And your point is?
“See, I figured I’d wind up getting engaged to one of them, we’d get married, he’d get a six-figure job and he’d just pay off all my credit card bills.”
The Goof’s Guide to Money
Why recall that conversation a quarter century later? Because it may have been the moment I began cataloging the daffy approach to spending so many Americans embrace. Call it The Goof’s Guide to Money Management.
Spend a little time watching, and on any given day you can see folks in little ways, big ways, and every way in between – many using credit cards as toys rather than tools – making the Goof’s Guide their personal fiscal Bible.
See the guy throttling past you on a city street, racing past $4-a-gallon-for-regular gas signs, so he can throw on the brakes and skid 200 feet to a stop at a red light? That’s goofy. How about the packs of folks wedging themselves in the doors of the local coffee house trying to beat each other to $5 cups of frothy hot liquids they could concoct themselves for 23 cents? That’s goofy.
And how ’bout the gal loading up at the mini-mart on junk food, lottery tickets, and cigarettes? That’s goofy, goofy, and goofy again.
That so many gain guidance from the guide is witnessed in the sprouting of casinos, the lines of folks itching to buy a new phone sure to be obsolete next month, and the tendency to start saving four decades after the start of earning.
No wonder credit card debt is so high
Multiply by the tens of millions who apparently use the Goof’s Guide as an indispensable reference wherever they go, and it’s no wonder that (according to IndexCreditCards.com) average credit card debt per household that carries a balance is $9, 858.
And what of Mary, my colleague once so sure she would wed a doctor who would cure all her credit card ills? Later, a few of our colleagues and I were guests at her wedding, watching her walk down the aisle to a groom who eked out a meager living as an entry-level chef. Sooner or later, we all have to come to grips with our goofy, goofy ways – cash back on purchases or not.
8 Responses to “The Goof’s Guide to Money Management”
It’s not how much you earn but what you do with your earnings!
I was also sure when I was in college that Iâ€™d be making great money as soon as I graduated. It was 2001 and placement for graduates from my college was well over 90% with average salaries around $t70k to start. The first couple years I had savings in the fall and debt in the spring, making enough in the summer to pay off the debts. I think the last time I was consumer debt free was the summer of 2005 just before I turned 23.
Interesting article. Do you know what the median credit card debt is? I think the average can be distorted in cases like this.
This is a real book? Where’s the link — my 10 seconds searching yields just this article…
I was sure when I was in college that I’d be making great money as soon as I graduated. It was 2001 and placement for graduates from my college was well over 90% with average salaries around $50k to start. The first couple years I had savings in the fall and debt in the spring, making enough in the summer to pay off the debts. I think the last time I was consumer debt free was the summer of 2001 just before I turned 21.
I graduated in 2004 with a more difficult job market than I anticipated and maybe 5-7k in credit cards. By the time I landed a steady job my 6 months grace period on student loans was gone and my 6-10 months repayment dreams fizzled as I took on the expenses of the real world. Then I lost my job…..
2 years later in Dec 2006 I was nearly 30k in debt with nothing of value besides my pickup, worth maybe $7000. I had been working where I could and not making enough to pay the bills. Fortunately that was my low point as I moved out of the city to start a new job. Now 4 years later I am still in the same job, a homeowner with over $20k equity, and still driving the same truck that carried me through the rough times.
I read the book and subscribed to the magazine, but fortunately I got my reality check earlier when the stakes were lower.
“Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so.” — Douglas Adams
I was the “surprise” born to two children of the Depression when they were older, so in theory I had their wisdom to draw on (in some way I did, my goofy thinking was 1/10 of my peers). I ended up taking a “parent loan” after getting myself into a debt trap with auto repairs (which was truly a “dimensioning returns type of vehicle”), then using one card with a lower rate to transfer, but one late payment (by one day) back into the mess. Here is the kicker, I had savings to cover it, but afraid if I used it, I’d never have any savings again.
In some ways this “Great Recession” might be healthy for the nation as a whole in the long run (said as one who was unemployed in ’92 — it sucked), for some, like myself, you can show on paper all day long, but still think I’m the exception until life has a way of proving the basics do matter.
Haha, yes, it is clearly a bestseller! We were discussing people’s insane financial behaviors just a short while ago, so this is timely.
Stacey, I have no such problem. Perhaps it’s the settings on your computer or the sizing of your windows?
I enjoy your blog, but please fix your website. It is very hard to read when a good chunk of the left hand text is cut off